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Research from the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry confirms the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain that handles reasoning and decision-making—doesn’t fully mature until around age 25. That’s why teens often react emotionally, then struggle to explain their behavior after. (AACAP)

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Today’s issue gives you a ready-to-use tool right inside this email: “The 7 Human Truths Every Kid Should Know.”

No download, no printout—just seven short insights you can talk through anytime to help your child navigate emotions, drama, and confusing behavior with more clarity.

❗Why This Matters

It’s easy to chalk up teen drama or sibling meltdowns to "just hormones" or "just a phase."

But underneath it is wiring. The part of your kid’s brain that handles emotions is in overdrive. The logic part? Still catching up. So when your child explodes because their friend didn’t text back, or shuts down after a sibling comment—they’re not being ridiculous. They’re being human, with extremely limited or zero training.

That’s the gap. Most kids don’t get taught how to read human behavior—what envy looks like, why people defend bad decisions, or how quickly social roles shift depending on the room. Generally, that comes through life experiences. Obviously, they’re too young to have experienced the world in its fullest.

That lack of awareness makes them reactive. Defensive. Drifting. And often confused about why things feel so hard.

Here’s my hope for today—a resource that can help you, as a parent, share some “truths” with you kid. (Today’s newsletter is wholly inspired by a short YouTube video I watched this morning.)

🛠 The Tool: The 7 Human Truths Every Kid Should Know

Use this list of “truths” to kick off short, useful conversations.
No sit-down talk required. Try one during a drive, while unloading groceries, or at bedtime.

Each truth includes:

• A simple insight about how people work

• A short “why it matters” note

• A real-life question to explore with your child

1. Feelings come first. Logic comes later.
Why it matters: Most decisions happen emotionally—even when they don’t seem like it.
Ask: “Think of a moment this week where your feelings made the choice before your brain could weigh in.”

2. Everyone plays a role.
Why it matters: People shift how they act depending on who’s watching.
Ask: “When do you change how you act—school vs. home, friends vs. adults?”

3. Envy hides in plain sight.
Why it matters: It rarely shows up as “I’m jealous.” It leaks out as criticism, sarcasm, or coldness.
Ask: “Ever felt weird or annoyed when someone else got praised—even if you weren’t mad at them?”

4. Defensiveness kicks in fast.
Why it matters: Even small feedback can feel like an attack.
Ask: “Has anyone ever given you advice, and your first reaction was to push back?”

5. We want things more when others have them.
Why it matters: Scarcity and comparison drive desire—even for stuff we didn’t care about yesterday.
Ask: “Have you ever changed your mind just because someone else got something first?”

6. People flip—and it usually has nothing to do with you.
Why it matters: Moods, loyalty, and energy shift for reasons we can’t always see.
Ask: “Has someone’s behavior toward you ever changed overnight? How did you handle it?”

7. Most people drift. Direction takes effort.
Why it matters: Having a direction—even a loose one—creates momentum.
Ask: “Is there something you want to aim for this month, just to try it?”

How to use this list:
Pick one truth. Ask the question. Listen. No need to explain or fix—just explore together.

This builds a vocabulary your kid can use in real life, not just at home.

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BEFORE YOU GO…

You don’t need to solve every meltdown. Just help your kid spot the pattern sooner. That’s what future-ready parenting looks like—small, clear shifts that build real-world clarity.

Until next time,
James Brauer
Founder, Future-Ready Parents