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If You’ve Been Crying at Work...You’re Not Alone
Why your burnout isn’t failure—and how calming your nervous system might just change your child’s future.


Good morning/day. It’s Monday, March 24—and if the weight of the world has been feeling heavier lately, you're not imagining it.
A new report just found that 40% of employees cried at work this month. Not thought about it. Not felt overwhelmed. Actually cried. 1
I’m not embarrassed to admit it, I’ve been that statistic before. I’m already an emotional person, so I’m probably more prone to showing more emotion than the typical worker.
Perhaps it’s possible, you too?
Whether it’s a slammed calendar, unread texts from your kid’s school, or trying to hold it all together with a smile while everything behind the scenes is coming undone—
This edition is for that version of you.
The one who’s not broken. Just burned out, but still trying.
Welcome to Future-Ready Parents—where we turn quiet parenting fears into small, doable actions that help raise emotionally grounded kids for a world we can’t fully predict.
You’re here. You’re not alone. And today? Today, we exhale.
THE BIG PICTURE

Let’s say it out loud: parenting in 2025 isn’t just hard—it’s relentless.
You’re not just managing your own emotions. You’re carrying the mental weight of your kids, your job, your finances, the future… and the dishwasher that somehow needs unloading again.
And your kids? They’re absorbing it.
Even babies pick up on your tension through your voice, your face, your stress levels. They feel it—even if you never say a word. 2
But here’s the part we don’t hear enough:
Just like stress can ripple through a family, so can calm.
When you take even a minute to regulate your nervous system, you're not being selfish.
You're giving your child the gift of emotional safety.
Let’s start today. One breath. One reset. One action toward the path of self-improvement.
TODAY'S MICRO-ACTION:
Box Breathing: Your 3-Minute Reset Button
You know that moment where everything feels one tiny step from falling apart?
You don’t need a whole morning off. You just need this.
Try this right now (no equipment required):
Box Breathing – 4-4-4-4 Method
Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds
Hold for 4 seconds
Exhale slowly for 4 seconds
Hold again for 4 seconds
→ Repeat 3–4 rounds. Or just once. That’s enough.
Why it works: Box breathing slows your heart rate, lowers stress hormones, and helps your brain shift out of “threat mode.” You’ll feel clearer, calmer, and more present—which is exactly what your child needs, too.
Here’s the kicker: Your calm is contagious. Even if your kid doesn’t say a word—they feel it.
MONDAY MOTIVATION:
What If Resilience Doesn’t Look Like Pushing Through?
Here’s a hard truth a lot of us are quietly carrying:
More than half of parents say 2025 feels harder than the pandemic.
And if that feels heavy to admit… it’s because it is.
There’s a myth we’ve been sold: that resilience looks like powering through, smiling through, never stopping.
But real resilience?
It starts with pausing. With resting. With softening.
When we’re constantly wired, foggy, or snapping at tiny things, we’re not failing.
We’re just out of fuel.
And here’s what your child needs most:
Not perfection. Not performance. Just a parent whose presence feels safe.
That kind of presence doesn’t come from hustle.
It comes from healing. (I know for some, this mind so a little “woo-woo”, but it’s grounded in research and does work for many.)
So if you need permission to take a breath today—this is it.
⚡ PARENT TO PARENT:
“I Didn’t Realize My Stress Was Shaping My Son’s Anxiety”
Sarah, a single mom of two, thought she was doing okay.
Between work deadlines, household chores, and trying to keep her kids on track, she was stretched thin…but managing.
Until her 8-year-old son, Jake, stopped sleeping through the night.
He became clingy. Anxious. Afraid of school. Little things started to scare him—like the idea of her being late or something going wrong in his day.
It wasn’t until Jake’s teacher gently flagged the shift that it clicked.
“I didn’t realize how much my stress was affecting Jake until I saw him mirroring my anxiety,” Sarah said. “It was a wake-up call.”
She didn’t overhaul her life.
She didn’t get a week off.
She started small.
Five minutes of journaling at night. A few deep breaths in the car before pickup. Stepping outside for fresh air when things felt tight.
Slowly, her own calm began to return.
And so did Jake’s.
His sleep got better. His fears softened. Their connection deepened.
This is what emotional safety looks like in real life.
📊 YESTERDAY’S POLL RESULTS:
If your family could “visit” any culture this weekend, which one would you pick?
Nigeria (Afrobeats, jollof rice, folktales): 38%
Another one? (shared via replies): 25%
Japan (origami, anime, bento boxes): 13%
Mexico (tacos, mariachi, family stories): 13%
Italy (gelato, art, long dinners): 13%
Thanks to everyone who shared—we’re weaving your ideas into an upcoming Family Friday Challenge!
📢 TODAY’S POLL:
Let’s name it: What’s burning you out most right now? |
📩 Vote now, and we’ll share the results in tomorrow’s issue!
🫡 CLOSING THOUGHT:
You are not failing.
You are adapting to a world that’s asking too much, too fast, with too little support.
And still…you show up…
…you care…
…you keep trying.
That’s the heartbeat of future-ready parenting.
So today, let’s do something radical:
Let’s breathe. Let’s pause. Let’s rest, even if just for a moment.
Because when we do?
We’re not just healing ourselves.
We’re showing our kids what calm looks like. What recovery looks like. What resilience actually means.
If this landed for you, forward it to one friend who might need a quiet breath today.
Or hit reply and tell us: What helps you reset when life feels like too much?
You’re not alone. And we’re so glad you’re here.
Until next time,
James Brauer
Founder, Future-Ready Parents
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